Men are hard wired to cheat says Holly Hill



http://jezebel.com/5603662/this-woman-revives-awful-stereotypes-pats-herself-on-the-back-for-it?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+jezebel%2Ffull+%28Jezebel%29

People are talking about it on Twitter, they are talking about it here on Facebook, Holly Hill and her new book SUGARBABE about her time as a professional mistress.

In a interview article with Jezebel.com Holly basically says that men are hard wired to cheat, they know it and deep down women know it too.

Her suggestion accept it for what it is, in fact go with it!

She says, "Monogamous men are heroes"

In her opinion it seems like normal men are cheaters, extraordinary men aren't, but the majority of men are just plain normal and will need to be with more women than just you.

People are floored by her perspective and find that it takes women back in their climb to valuing themselves, sex, love, and self worth.

It's shocking to me because I find that humans are naturally jealous, possessive, territorial creatures. How do you live this free love ideology long term? She says monogamy is only possible in the short term but in the long term open relationships are the only way to do it.

Funny because in my research on Miss Holly, I found that she is now in a relationship with negotiated monogamy. Her boyfriend is allowed to sleep with other women as long as he doesn't spend the night, doesn't spoon with her, he can't take her away on romantic trip and Hill cannot wear lingerie that Dean has purchased for any of her flings...

Sounds like a lot of conditions for someone who believes in free love doesn't it? The territorial part of her really wants to keep something special between her and her boyfriend but how and why? Since when can a free-for-all be negotiated??? Also what kind of live-in boyfriend says ok you can sleep with other men since I get to sleep with other women???

Where is that guy and how come he's never the guy doing the cheating in these supposed monogamous relationships? Far as I know most guys who cheat on their girlfriends do NOT appreciate being cheated on in return...

Further research on Miss Holly? Her father cheated on her mother when she was a child and it left her mother devastated.

The first married man she was a mistress for and QUIT HER JOB FOR, eventually dumped her and went home to his wife.

After that she decided to put out an ad for a new sugar daddy and had 4 in a 6 month period, she said she learned not to take it personal when her stint with them ended. If you get a treat all the time it isn't a treat anymore she says.

Miss Holly just seems to be someone who loves sex but also has a ton of hurt and pain that she communicates through her body as well and figure out she might as well make money on it.

She, a psych major, obviously needs to be addressing her own demons and child hood issues.
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http://www.marieclaire.com/celebrity-lifestyle/articles/living/how-to-find-a-sugar-daddy

Now that she is in love with someone she realizes being a mistress was wrong, because the man is lying to the woman he loves (thank you she found some values) but would do it again if the wife gave permission.

I just have to shake my head at this one and pray she eventually realizes that real love, unity and monogamy are stronger and worth more than all the free sets of panties or boxers you can get.

xoxo
Carrie Pink
Pretty World Inc
Modern Day Supergirl

7 comments:

Kimothy said...

Placing conditions on her bf's trysts is bass ackwards indeed. No overnight stays? No spooning other women? She is afraid of her man sharing with other women the same intimacy he shares with her. Physical cheating is OK, expected, and encouraged but don't dare emotionally cheat on Holly Hill! o_O Sounds more complicated than a monogamous relationship.

I say buy a bunch of different wigs and costumes and have a ball! But that's me.

New Money said...

the idea is ingenious yet still is asinine. most women would have to put conditions on there open relationship. that eliminates the free part & allows them to have control over their partner.

a man can sleep with as many women he can & still be in love. a woman will always want just 1 man no matter how "open & free" the relationship is.

once she figures her true self worth as well as acknowledges the pain sh has inside she will be fine & write another book on true love.

Anonymous said...

Thanks for an idea, you sparked at thought from a angle I hadn’t given thoguht to yet. Now lets see if I can do something with it.

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