Why do women hate?



Original Post written by Tahira West-Sylvester, with Carrie Pink edits

Who wants to take a stab at this? Ooooo ooooo *waves hand frantically in the air* I Do! I Do!!! Ooo Ooo Ooo Pick Me!!!

Insecurity is gonna be at the top of the list here. Why?? BECAUSE! There is no LOGICAL reason for a woman to hate on another woman (ESPECIALLY WHEN ITS SOMEONE THAT SHE DOESN'T EVEN KNOW) other than that other woman possesses something she thinks she doesn't have, wants or feels she deserves.

I've always had haters... Back in 4th grade... "Oh she thinks shes cute because she's light skin with long hair"... NO Ma, lets not get it twisted, YOU THINK I'm CUTE because I'm light skin with long hair.. that I grew.. all by myself. and that's why you're mad.

As of late most of my haters have been pretty quiet.. but I KNOW they still lurk.. some of them are reading this right now! *waves* Good Morning!!! (because as much as you hate me, you just can't keep away! smile)

I just don't see the point.... what does hating really accomplish? I was never the type of person to be mad at a hater.. I knew that there was something wrong with them not me, in fact I've always recycled their energy into clean feul that I can use.. lol to go further, move faster, and be stronger.. lol No point in wasting the energy.. shoot.. If you want to give me your energy, I'm going to take it!!!

Recently Tahira had a hater who insisted on bashing her about her weight. But really the hater is mad that she is single, bitter and unable to manage her emotions, while Tahira is happy, engaged and blessed!

It's kind of the mentality of, what's Tahira got that I don't???? She's a big girl! How does she have a man? SMFH ladies are you kidding me.. Tahira handles her Biz.. is there to help others before she helps herself and has a warm spirit.. Her weight?? Mind your BIZ- NAS!

Tahira was a bit defensive at first, but then realized she has nothing to worry about. She already knows that she is beautiful and does not need anyone to cosign that! (Although its very nice to hear, from her boo!)

The crazy thing about it though.. the woman hating probably wouldn't even want Tahira's man if he was AVAILABLE.. so what are you mad for exactly???

I digress. Ladies, hating on other women is ONLY hating on yourself. What you need to do is focus on how you can make you a better you.

HENCE THE REASON WHY YOU NEED TO BE ENROLLED IN MY SEMINAR SERIES!!! (shameless plug!)

Self love is critical and ESSENTIAL to your survival in a world filled with haters. Imagine if all of a sudden all of the hate you spit turned back on you?? Imagine if you listened to and acknowledged the opinions of every single person taking to heart ALL the poison that came your way. What would become of you?

In actuality, haters just want your attention.. They are like starved children.. They want to see if they can ignite something in you to justify their evil comment.. DON'T give in to them!!!!

Shake them off and REBUKE their evil spirit! Stop spitting or swallowing the poison that the world throws at you ladies. That same poison corrodes your psyche, allows you to HATE ON YOURSELF and in turn HATE EVERY OTHER WOMEN AROUND YOU THAT INTIMIDATES YOU! STOP IT!!!

Hate comes from lack. So what is it that you are lacking ladies ??? Whatever it is YOU are the only person who can change that, YOU are the only person who can go get it, YOU are the only person responsible for YOU!

Don't be mad cause I have a man, BE OPEN TO THE ONE you keep dissing cause he isn't tall enough, paid enough, slim enough, cute enough, educated enough...

Don't be mad cause my hair is mine... It's 2010 BUY SOME!! GROW SOME! BORROW SOME! there are so many ways to make YOU look like whoever YOU want.. (if you are that unhappy with yourself) there is never a reason to hate on the physical attributes of another women.. if you want it... GO GET IT!

Don't be mad cause so and so is wearing whatever designer it is that you want to wear.. SAVE YOUR MONEY (IF ITS THAT IMPORTANT TO YOU) AND GO BUY IT!!!

You know I won't leave you out there without a solution right? (that's Tahira Speaking!)

Let's do some mirror work. First write down on a piece of paper all the things you love and appreciate about yourself. Start with ten things. Stick those ten things to your mirror and recite them while looking at yourself in the eyes. Say those words twice a day, for three weeks. See if it works.

Another exercise I challenge you to is letting people know what you think of yourself. Let people know that you love YOU and have no intention of changing that ever.

Ladies, I promise you there will be days when someone is gonna try to mess with you. You are gonna hear something, someone is gonna do something But it DOESN'T have to knock you off your game!!

And if you are a hater reading this.. once you learn to love yourself.. Practice loving others!.. If you like another woman's shoes tell her and mean it!!! If you like her hair, tell her and mean that too!

People think I am so strange because I always compliment and congratulate other women on their accomplishments.. why? because NO ONE can hold a candle to ME.. No matter what somebody else is doing or Where they are in their lives.... I AM THE BEST I CAN BE and every day I strive to be EVEN BETTER..

Hate shows up when you know you have been SLACKING on YOU!!!

So get it together ladies and shine your light bright because it will eventually erase all darkness from your life. SHINE!!!

xoxo
Carrie Pink
Pretty World Inc
Modern Day Supergirls

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