Question of the Day! Helping out the EX!



From Eric Gilmore:
Q1. IF YOUR BABY MOMS WAS LOOKING TORE ALL FROM THE FLOOR UP WOULD YOU HELP HER OUT EVEN THOUGH YA'LL TWO ARE NOT TOGETHER AND LADIES THE SAME QUESTION FOR YOU IF YOUR BABY FATHER IS LOOKING TORE UP FROM THE FLOOR UP WOULD YOU HELP HIM OUT NO CONNECTION JUST STRICTLY HELP THEM OUT!!!

I said, first define the "Tore Up" and then define the "HELP" if he looks like he hasn't gotten a hair cut in a while or hasn't been to the cleaners NO I am not offering to pay for it or wash his clothes. Hell No!

If he loses his job and has no money, I am not hooking him up then either just because. Since our separation both my older daughters father and I have been out of work for some prolonged period of time. At neither time did either of us ended up TORE UP.

If he doesn't have money to feed our daughter when she is with him then YES I will supply money or even better I will cook food for that.

Eric's stance was he would help his child's mother out because if she looks tore up its a reflection on their son as well.

My thoughts behind that is, it must be because he is a man and the child does not live with him full time. It is not my job to make my child's father look fly. He is a grown ass man, he can choose to do that OR not do that! It isn't my job to make sure he is presentable. As long as daughter looks presentable.

Is his situation a reflection on the child? If your child lives with the other parent then I can understand the concern, but if the child lives with me then i am not really concerned, also how does the child look?

There are parents out there who will actually sacrifice their flyness for their child. So if the child is still looking well put together at the sacrifice of the parent's flyness there isn't anything wrong with that. In fact thats pretty much how it should be, but if you the parent are in tip top condition and the child looks tore up.. well then thats a major problem!

What do you guys think??

What about further steps? Where do you stop the "Help"? If your childs father or mother got evicted would you then let them come stay at your house? Or hook them up with a new place on your dollar???

Um.. If you would God Bless You...I would not. That's what family and friends are for.

I think guys and girls who go all out of their way for their child's mother or father, are just subconsciously doing it with the hopes of a reconciliation, IMHO.

But if you already moved on with your life, imagine telling your husband, wife or significant other.. Yeah Tanyas daddy/ mama is going to be staying with me for a while.. LMFAO WTF?


xoxo
Carrie Pink
Pretty World Inc
Modern Day Supergirl

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