Prayer and Ass Whuppings!



This morning I was listening to the Steve Harvey Morning show which always has a Strawberry letter where someone is writing in looking for advice from the crew

So todays letter.... A mother with 2 daughters ages 12 and 16 wrote in about how she divorced her physically abusive husband 3 years ago after I don't know how many years of marriage.

Her daughters have since graciously decided to pick up where their daddy left off. They curse and hit their mother even for her asking them to do simple things like chores, she has been hospitalized because of them and once had to have surgery after a fight with them.

The mothers new boyfriend is like nobody is going to beat on my woman especially not any kids and when they tried it in front of him he called the police and held them down till the cops got there. Police filed a complaint but nothing else because the girls are only minors..
(they must be in some back ass state would that be the case in NY?)

The woman has been to counseling with the kids, mediation, meditation and other types of intervention programs even just good ole mother- daughter bonding.

She has finally decided to let the girls go live with their father for now and is thinking to sign over custody to him.. But she wanted to ask Steve is that the wrong thing to do?

Now Steve said, Lady you have tried everything except the 2 things that will work! Prayer and a good ole fashioned ass whupping!!!

And I'ma have to whole heartedly agree with him! And like Steve did I'm going to apologize in advance to any person who gets offended or disagrees... BUT!!!!

Kids NEED discipline, especially when they have reached the point this woman's kids are!! Ain't no talking or time outs gonna fix it!!!

She has obviously been slipping on the discipline for a minute if they have been this way for the past 3 years.. That means that 12 year old was only 9 then, and you gonna tell me you weren't putting your foot in her ass even back then??

You are really going to tell me that two little punk ass kids who I carried and gave birth to after however many hours of labor are really going to jump me and I'm not going to knock one of those little broads out!!! You must be crazy!!!!!!!!

Shoooooooot if you are bold enough to raise your hand to your mother be woman enough to get knocked the effe out!

I wish my kids would!!!! I can't even imagine!!!! Shooot 2 of my daughters are 4 years apart just like this woman's kids.... Smfh I'm getting tight just thinking about them ever playing themselves, it would be a cold day in hell boy I tell you....

There are 2 things that I teach my kids... One is you will respect ME, your father, your teachers, your grandparents, and ANY OTHER adult who speaks to you!!! And I mean ANY OTHER! Don't let the after school teacher, girl scout leader, or sunday school teacher tell me your ass was cutting up!!!!

The second thing is I put the fear of God in they ass. My five year old has the fear of God and of me... All I have to do is say I'm going to... And she is scared straight... My 1 year old?? She has a lot of ass whuppings coming her way just now..

This is no better time than the present Parents, you cannot wait until a child is 5 to start the discipline... They start testing you as early as 1!!! They want to see what you will allow and what you won't and whatever you do allow THEY RUN WITH IT!

Thats how people end up with 6 year olds who run circles around them embarrassing them in the streets and 16 year olds beating their parents ass! I tell my 5 year old all the time, you embarrass me and I'm surely going to embarrass you, right in front of everybody!

I guess I'm old school I was raised by my grandmother during those important years of 0-12 and she made no qualms about her position! She was 70 years old when I was born and I still feared that woman with my life, AND respected her like she was the President. I knew she loved me and that love is what would be beating my ass if I ever stepped out of line!

Now when I say I'm old school I believe in the village philosophy, so don't let your kids act up with me either! My sisters and I will discipline each others kids if need be! And my one sister who does not physically discipline her daughter I tell my niece all the time, your mama may not, but when you are with me expect some licks if you act up! The first time I ever had to, she told on me lol and I said in front of her mother and her, yep sure did and I would do it again right in front your mother!

You think I had any problems with her after that! No sir... Kids know who they can get away with the nonsense with and which family members wont be caught slipping lol.. Auntie never slips OR misses. lol

Prayer changes things. Ass whuppings push it in the right direction! -Steve Harvey

Thoughts? what should this woman do with her two demon children???

xoxo
Carrie Pink
Pretty World Inc
Modern Day Supergirl

8 comments:

Triishy said...
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Anonymous said...

Wow I cannot believe I stumbled on this blog after the experience I had yesterday. A very close friend of mine is raising a "demon child" I can see it in the 5 yr old eyes...Can you believe this?

The 2nd incident is similar to the very 1st so I will just explain that one. The first time I realized the problem with the little girl is when I was called to keep her company while my friend did her hair, she would not sit down, she kept dropping furniture on the floor , she does not say hello when some says it to her ( I think this is the rudest!) and when I finally asked her to RELAX grab a book and write her name , she went BONKERS!

I noticed that she could not stay focused , and it became EMBARRASSING, I hate embarrassment. I took her into the bathroom so we can have a one on one ( no hitting yet just talking) and that is when she turned into the demon, she yelled at the top of her lungs, cried as if I was stomping her out, her face looked almost unfamiliar and a strength came over her!!! I felt like I was fighting someone my age, and not trying to simply hold down a 5yr old.

My issues..
not listening, she had no fear, she laughs as if you are playing around , and I believe this is from the tolerance shes sometimes used to, because she DOES GET HER ASS BEAT!
My question to you, is what do you do when the ass beating, the praying, the tears, the talks... do not work?
When its so bad a 5 year old is "unlikeable". I don't even think she should be allowed around other people who are not familiar with her ways...its just chaos.
My friend is judged all the time , and its hurts me and I honestly feel sometimes its out of the parents hands and professional help is needed. But can you tell your friend this?

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