The Decision to Decide...

How many times have you been faced with a scenario that required a difficult decision????

We are all old enough by now to have faced a few of these moments where we would rather crawl under a rock than face and make a difficult decision, or make a decision that we are unsure of the outcome, or are unsure if what we are choosing is the right thing..

Well here's a secret that I shared with you on my status a few months back..

NOT deciding is still in essence making a decision!!!

You are deciding to avoid the situation, you are deciding to avoid the person, you are deciding to hide. So a situation that only had 2 choices to start with, you have in fact gone and created a third option.

When we do this we end up off of our paths to Greatness... Even those who are Destined for Greatness can never make it there if they don't decide to go with their destiny.

So what do you need to make difficult decisions that you face in life??

Well you need courage...

What is courage?

I used to say courage was the elimination of my fears, but in essence all I did was turn the courage knob WAY UP!

Courage by definition is not the elimination of fear, its the DECISION to act in spite of it!

So when I quit my job in 2006 to go to grad school, Yes I was scared, Yes I knew it was a huge risk to make that decision, BUT my desire to get to the other side was stronger than staying in the position I was in. My courage outweighed the fear so to me it felt like the fear, wasn't even there anymore!

When you have no safety net, you have no choice but to make it across the tightrope!

To order to GET UP and DO anything in life, first you have to DECIDE to do it. If you haven't decided then the actions won't follow that are necessary for you to succeed.

A lot of people talk, oh I want to be a doctor, a lawyer, an actress, a writer, but they have yet to make the decision to become such things.

Shoot we can even make it simpler than careers which often require outside entities (schools, employers) to have an influence in your success or failure

People who say, I want to be a better mother, better father, a better husband, wife, sister, friend.. NONE OF THIS will happen if you don't decide to be such. Just saying it out loud does not equal a DECISION..

Another major set back, is allowing other people to decide for you! Who do you think is really equipped to make the best decisions in life for you??? It surely isn't someone else, It's YOU!!!

Don't let your friends decide, your family, shoot, even your parents as dear and sweet as they are cannot always make the best decisions for you! You have to make your own choices, your own decisions, and live with your own consequences even for the decisions you chose NOT TO MAKE.

Think about it, Then Decide.

xoxo
Carrie Pink
Petty World Inc
Modern Day Supergirls

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