Your 3 sides.....

Every person is made up of 3 people, who you think you are, who other people think you are, and who you really are. Carrie how can this be? I am the exact same person all the time, don't you know? I keep it "real!"

Do you really? Someone define real? Because if you look around more people out there are better at keeping it placid than keeping it real.

They tell us that their lives are wonderful, their children are beautiful and perfectly behaved, they mates are phenomenal. They travel on a whim, go out to dinner often and still can afford Louis bags in this recession without breaking a sweat.

People tell you things about themselves that they want you to know, nothing more, and who isn't going to make their lives sound like a magnificent fairytale that they want everyone around them to envy?

Nobody is going to share the ugly facts of their lives when their mortgage is behind, their mate is cheating, their kids are disgusting brats, underperforming at work, living paycheck to paycheck and don't have a dime to their name.

We live in a place where you are expected to be picture perfect every time you step out the door and have a picture perfect story to go with it.

What's worse is that some people truly believe they are the person they tell everyone they are. I explained this in detail before in my note club life vs real life.... I don't care how many pairs of Jimmy Choos you own, if you don't have anything in your savings account but still live @ home with your mama, not one aspiration, dream or goal that you are working towards that will make you money instead of make you spend it, then you are not a Diva...

I'm not saying you should speak all your business, I'm just pointing out my observations of folk, we all put up fronts at times, we all are selective in the things we say to others, as we should be, and we all give in to maintaining the status quo, its a part of our society and a necessary evil to getting where we want to go, just don't overdo it and big your self up too much exaggerating your fairytale beyond belief because no matter who you are there are people out there who want to destroy you and will make it their business to find out your truth.

And remember this last thing there are two types of people in the world, People who accomplish things, and people who claim to have accomplished things.. The first group is less crowded... And typically less self righteous.

Carrie Pink
Pretty World Inc
Modern Day Supergirls
remember your truth it may save you from slander on front street

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